Kutenda kune simba rakanaka pamaitiro edu - ngative vakatendeseka zvakanyanya, tiwedzere kuzvidzora kwedu, uye tivandudze kushanda kwedu zvakanaka uye hukama hwemhuri.

Naizvozvo, unogona kufunga kuti ndinofunga Kuvonga nderimwe remazuva akakosha egore.Mushure mezvose, kana mabhenefiti ekutenda akawedzerwa

pane rimwe zuva, rinofanira kuva zororo renyika rakanyatsogadzirirwa kuratidza manzwiro akadaro.

Asi kutaura chokwadi, kutenda kunoparadza paKutenda.Usandifungidzire zvisizvo: Ndinoda mutinhimira uye tsika dzemazuva ano sezvakaita vamwe vese.

Zvingori zvinhu izvi zvinoita kuti Kuvonga kunakidze - kambani yehama neshamwari, nguva isina basa, uye kunakidzwa neakakosha turkey.

chisvusvuro - izvo zvinoita kuti Kuvonga kusakosha.

Chimwe chezvinangwa zvikuru zvekutenda ndechekutibatsira kutanga hukama hwakasimba nevamwe.Ongororo yakaitwa naSara Algoe, nyanzvi yepfungwa inoratidza izvozvo kana tichitenda

nekufunga kwevamwe, tinofunga kuti vangave vakakodzera kunzwisiswa zvakare.Kutenda kunotikurudzira kutora danho rekutanga mukuvaka hukama

nevasingazivi.Kana tangosvika pakuziva vamwe zviri nani, rutendo runopfuurira runosimbisa kubatana kwedu navo.Kutenda rubatsiro rwevamwe zvakare

zvinoita kuti tide kupa rubatsiro kuvanhu vatisingazive - nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Monica Bartlett akawana chiitiko ichi - chinoita kuti vamwe vade.

kutiziva isu.

Asi patinogara takakomberedza tafura yeKutenda nehama neshamwari, kazhinji hatitsvage vamwe nemaune uye kutanga hukama hutsva.

Pazuva iri, tave nevanhu vatinokoshesa.

Kuti zvive pachena, handisi kuti hazvina kukodzera kutora nguva yekufungisisa uye kuratidza kuonga zvinhu zvakanaka muupenyu.Chokwadi ichi chiito chakanaka.

Asi kubva pakuona kwesainzi - kuvepo kwemanzwiro kunosimudzira sarudzo dzedu nemafambiro ekukura mune imwe nzira - mabhenefiti.

yokutenda kazhinji inova isingakoshi pazuva raanonyanya kuratidzwa.

Heuno mumwe muenzaniso.Tsvagiridzo yangu yemurabhoritari inoratidza kuti kutenda kunobatsira kuve wakatendeseka.Apo ini nevandinoshanda navo takakumbira vanhu kuti vataure kana

mari yavaikanda vari voga yaiva yakanaka kana kuti yakaipa (zvakanaka zvinoreva kuti vachawana mari yakawanda), vaya vakava vanoonga (nokuverenga mufaro wavo vamene)

vaingokwanisa kubiridzira hafu chete sevamwe.Tinoziva kuti ndiani akabiridzira nekuti mari yacho yakagadzirirwa kutarisana

Kutenda kunoitawo kuti tive nerupo: mukuedza kwedu, kana vanhu vaine mukana wekugovana mari nevasingazivi, takaona kuti avo

vanotenda vachagovana 12% yakawanda paavhareji.

PaZuva reKutenda, zvisinei, kubiridzira uye kuomera hazviwanzo zvitadzo zvedu.(Kunze kwekunge iwe uchiverenga kuti ndakadya zvakawanda zvekuzadza kwaAmainini Donna.)

Kuzvidzora kunogonawo kuvandudzwa kuburikidza nekutenda.Ini nevandinoshanda navo takaona kuti vanhu vanoonga kashoma kuti vaite zvemari nechimbichimbi

sarudzo - ivo vanonyanya kuda kuve nemoyo murefu nekudzoka kwekudyara mune ramangwana, pane kukara purofiti diki.Kuzvidzora uku kunoshandawo pakudya:

seizvo zvakawanikwa nenyanzvi yepfungwa Sonja Lyubomirsky nevamwe vake zvinoratidza, vanhu vanoonga vangangoramba chikafu chisina kunaka.

Asi paKutenda, kuzvidzora hakusi iko kwazvinoita.Hapana munhu anofanirwa kuzviyeuchidza kuti achengetedze mari yakawanda muakaundi yake yekurega basa;Mabhangi

dzakavharwa.Kunze kwezvo, kana ndisingakwanisi kudya paki yenhanga yaAmy paZuva reKutenda, ndichamirira rinhi?

Kutenda kunoitawo kuti tive neunyanzvi.Nyanzvi dzepfungwa Adam Grant naFrancesca Gino vakawana kuti apo vakuru vebasa vakaratidza kuonga basa rakaoma

yevashandi mudhipatimendi rezvemari, kushingaira kwavo kwaizowedzera ne33%.Kuratidza kutenda kwakanyanya muhofisi zvakare padhuze

zvine chekuita nekugutsikana kwebasa repamusoro uye mufaro.

Zvakare, kutenda kwese kukuru.Asi kunze kwekunge iri indasitiri yebasa, haugone kushanda paKutenda.

Ndinoda kuratidza imwe mukana wekutenda: inogona kuderedza kunyanya kuda zvinhu.Tsvagiridzo yakaitwa nenyanzvi yepfungwa Nathaniel Lambert inoratidza kuti kuva zvakanyanya

kuonga hakuzongonatsiridza kugutsikana kwevanhu neupenyu, asiwo kunoderedza chido chavo chokutenga zvinhu.Kuwana uku kunoenderana netsvakiridzo

wenyanzvi yepfungwa Thomas Gilovich, iyo inoratidza kuti vanhu vanowanzova vanoonga zvikuru nguva yavanopedza vaine vamwe kupfuura zvipo zvinodhura.

Asi paKutenda, kudzivisa kutenga zvechimbichimbi kazhinji harisi dambudziko guru.(Asi Black Friday zuva rinotevera ndeimwe nyaya.)

Naizvozvo, kana iwe nevadiwa vako mukaungana paZuva reKutenda gore rino, muchaona kuti mufaro wezuva rino - chikafu chinonaka, mhuri.

uye shamwari, rugare rwepfungwa - zviri nyore kuwana.Tinofanira kuungana neChina chechina muna Mbudzi kunyaradzana uye kuzorora.

Asi pane mamwe mazuva 364 egore - mazuva aunganzwa kusurukirwa, kushushikana pabasa, kuvhiringika kubiridzira kana kuita diki, kumira kurima rutendo.

kuchaita mutsauko mukuru.Kutenda kunogona kunge isiri nguva yekutenda, asi kutenda kune mamwe mazuva kunogona kukubatsira kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti unokwanisa kuwana.

zvinhu zvakawanda zvekutenda mune ramangwana.